Dating advice calling too much
One day recently, my man David and I were having a conversation about why men don’t call and how women chronically over analyse when he doesn’t call – a conversation that just made me laugh in amusement.
I laughed in amusement because no matter how many times I have a new realisation about how different a masculine man is to a feminine woman, it’s always funny.
Then you're less than an hour out from the date and you receive a text: "I had a great time. Let's do it again." Or worse, the guy actually calls you before you go to bed or something to chat. Sure, you can lay down the law and tell him never to come by unless he calls first, but why bother? Despite how it might seem, contacting each other via phone really isn't that difficult.
This is a guy without common sense or self-control.
Do you really want to hang out all day with somebody you've never met, no matter how great they sound on the phone or through email? He might be so stupid as to actually introduce you as his girlfriend. Let's say you just met the guy and you're at an art gallery and suddenly he tries to hold your hand. The guy with self-confidence has dated enough to know that weird things can happen to derail a relationship.